That Feel After a Break-up

Recently, one of my friends has been completely shattered by his break-up. Every time he would talk to me, he would repeat the words, 'he feels emotionless now'.  He would tell me how he feels useless and pledges not to fall in love again. True, we do feel that way. Sometimes, moments of two months can take two years to forget and sometimes they can stay for a lifetime. But we must not forget that life has to go on, buddy.

I have been continuously telling him, these feelings will fade; all you need is to have patience; but like most of us that is what he fails to understand. He fails to have that patience. Every problem, every hurdle and every challenge we face in life; we look upon them as a dead end. But that is an illusion, buddy. When the light will shine, when the dawn will come you will get to see a window of hope; with the power to unlock it or keep it locked in your hands.

To my buddy with such a pain, I ask “will you cut and throw the body part which gets cancer or treat it?” If you would treat it, then you shall cure this pain too. You can achieve success in this; if you accept, few things need time. We did not grow up in a year from an infant to an adult; then why do we expect things to change overnight? Things will change and good things will come but on their own time. When things shall come, they will come.

Till then, I don’t ask you to stop grieving; grief, for there is no other way to feel relieved. Grief as you may, for there is no one way to do it. But understand that this grief has to pass. Every time you feel helpless, accept it that you would feel better again. It may take time, but it has to change and it will; buddy.

I am sharing a link of a beautiful note I read, that may convince you more than I could. I hope it does so, buddy.

https://www.facebook.com/notes/omega-course/how-could-she-say-to-me-love-will-find-a-way-/229142007135960