Fall in Love with a Writer

The theme isn't new buddy, but it still amuses me. Inspired by other write-ups, an account of my own observations of what it is to be with a writer!!! 

The writer’s persona

Writers are a bunch of extraordinary people. Deep within they are artists with a golden heart. Crossing theirs self made barriers, breaking the cocoon in which they hide; you will find yourself unlocking a treasure. You could perhaps never find a writer not loving or caring. They are social workers, keen observers, revolutionists and rebels.

They are impulsive people; fond of order and chaos at the same time. Fickle-minded; you won’t find them afraid or ashamed ever to change their decision. They understand it is humane to change mind; to accept if you have been mistaken and to look forward to a better solution, if it exists. Writers are bound to have no routine. They are meant to break rules, sometimes only to experience and write about it. They might wake up in the middle of night to note what crossed their mind. They might sleep all day or sometimes days and then write continuously when bestowed with a story. They may forget to eat, forget to bathe; sometimes lost in solitude carving the best tales from the fruits of fantasy.
If there has to exist a God of imagination, his name must be coined as the “writer”.

When you are in love with a writer

Accounting to their unpredictability, you could perhaps never understand them completely. Repeat the same words to them; on two different days and you would see them expressing two totally opposing sentiments. It will always depend on their state of mind.

Every writer is synonym of a plethora of emotions. Tell him you love him when he is happy with his work and you will find your reflection in some unknown character. Tell him the same when he is dissatisfied and you will get a cold reaction. A writer is just like a river, sometimes overwhelmed, happy with the monsoons while running dry at times yet thirsty to meet the gigantic ocean. No matter what the season is, it is always too easy and too hard, to reach that river bed. But when you do, you will find precious gems engulfing your life with their glow.

When a writer loves you

They will make you feel as their first and last love. They will never let past experiences come in the way. They give away all they have without any fear.

They make their beloved a perennial being. You will live in every word they write, in every word they speak. Enveloping your mortal body with their immortal stories, they will never let you die; never let you leave.

Making love is always going to be different when it is a writer; sometimes, too soft while sometimes too wild; but always heavenly. A writer just won’t sleep with you if not in love.

They might wake you up in the middle of night just to have a stroll at the highway or to recite a prose for you that crossed their mind; they might just take you on a sudden midnight or morning date; they might just cuddle up and sleep for long; they might just bring you a surprise, early morning; they might just hug you tight and speak nothing at all; they might bring you the old traditional love notes on the postcards; they might just cook your favorite dinner at morning; when away they might just call to hear your silence; they might just act sometimes too pure, too loving and sometimes too stubborn. When a writer loves you it is simply incredible!

Why not to fall for a writer.

Writers need solitude. They could leave you by yourself for days. Getting along with writers is not that easy; their mercurial disposition makes it tough.

If they like certain things that you don’t, be ready for an argument. They are adamant and simply won’t give in.

Hurt them and they might hurt you more by writing somewhere about it. Or they may write long letters to resolve the issue. You never know what is next!

Sometimes, they may just put you through a variety of circumstances to get that feel to write. At times, they may look at each person as a character. They may forget the subtle differences between reality and imagination. Some people say, when they have written all about you, when you have been completely put into words, they might need another inspiration. But you must not forget, writers will never fall out of love, short of words for you. They just might need another inspiration, for a brand new story.

Sometimes you may find them leaving you in the middle of sex, to write, as their heart has been submerged with emotions. They might let you sleep disheartened after a scuffle, and then caress after you have fallen asleep.

They will remember the minutest details, the spoken as well as unspoken words, the look in your eyes, the things you have forgotten and even the things you don’t want to recollect. Like it or not, they will remember it all.

Being with a writer will definitely not let your life be boring. Every then and now you will see a new trait. You will see a little of you in their every sketched character and a little of every sketched character in them. If it has to be a fairy tale, it has to be with a writer!!